Step #5: Requesting A Private Webcam Chat From A Sexy Cam Girl

Step #5: How To Request A Private Webcam Chat

The main appeal of cam sites is the interactive nature of them. You can actually participate and have a say in what the cam girls are doing! This is just one of many reasons why a private webcam chat is the best kind of cam show, and the best kind of porn, available online right now. But cam girls don’t say yes to just anyone. They can be particular about the guys that they agree to give private webcam chat shows to, so if you want one, you have to know how to ask for it. Asking a cam girl for a private webcam chat requires some finesse if you’re going to do it successfully. Here are some key tips of getting your request. You’ll find that most of them are common sense, but sometimes it’s helpful to be reminded of these things once in awhile.

Ask Respectfully


If you want a cam girl to agree to a private webcam chat with you, you need to ask properly. Demands will get you nowhere, neither will pointing you that they owe you because of what they do. They don’t, and you’ll be blocked for sure. Talk to cam girls like you would any girl you were asking out. Approaching a private webcam chat request this way almost guarantees that you’ll get the results you want, because there’s no reason for them to say no to you. You wouldn’t walk up to a girl on the street and tell her she has to go out with you, so don’t do it to a cam girl. As long as you’re polite and genuine in your request, a cam girl will have no problem giving you a private webcam chat show, and she’ll be more likely to agree to your specific requests during the private show as well. If you’re going this route, you need to pay for the show though – no demands for free shows aside from the public one she’s putting on already.

Be Pleasant

Be someone that she wants to talk to. Cam girls talk to all kinds of guys all day long, so they have little patience for jerks or rude people. If you act like one of those people who she’s likely to block, then guess what? She’s going to block you, and most definitely won’t agree to a private webcam chat show with you. Nobody wants to talk to someone who’s unpleasant or difficult to hold a conversation of any kind with, so keep things light hearted and sincere. Cam girls have complete discretion to block someone completely from using a cam site, so if you want to continue to use the site, be good. Word gets around between the cam girls on any cam site, so they will know who the bullies are and who won’t pay – basically who to refuse a private webcam chat with. Avoid being this person by just being a good guy. Don’t put on a rude macho act just because you feel like that’s what they want – they don’t. They would much rather you be yourself, pleasant but still naughty, then anything else. It allows you to focus on the show, and her, and enjoy yourself without needing to keep up an act or feel self-conscious.

Give Her Incentive

Offer her tips, and if you can, give her a potential amount that you’d be willing to do so. You can make a game out of it, with different levels of kink and sexiness earning different tip amounts – get creative! The main thing here is to give her a reason to give you a private webcam chat show over another user who might be asking. Don’t think that you’re the only person asking her for a private webcam chat. You’re most definitely not alone in your desire. She can make tips doing a public show for several people at one time, so you need to make it worth her while for her to choose you alone over a number of other users. The more you’re willing to tip her for her show, the more likely she is to not only agree to a private webcam chat show, but she’s much more likely to put in maximum effort to make it the best one for you! Money gets you everything on cam sites, especially in private webcam chat shows, so you cannot be stingy!

Let Her Know You Can Pay

Let your prospective cam girl know that you’re not just some guy asking for a show, but doesn’t want to pay. Make her aware that you can and do intend to do so. One of the things that cam girls hate more than anything is men who beg for a private webcam chat, then make excuses for why they can’t pay for the show and should have it for free. Trust us when we say that they’ve heard every excuse in the book, and even some out-there ones. If you want them to to give you a private webcam chat show, then do not expect it to come for free. These ladies are providing a service and don’t owe their viewers anything except what they pay for, so keep that in mind when you’re asking for a private webcam chat. Make it clear that you fully intend to pay her for the show that you want, and she’ll say yes to anything you want (within reason).

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